Entrepreneur Development - Are You Struggling in Your Home Business?
Sunday, June 7th, 2009Greetings Fellow Entrepreneurs!
Today let’s talk about something that may be bothering you and let’s see if we can’t find a solution. You decided at some point to become your own boss, to work from home and earn a great living doing it. You got excited just thinking about all the possibilities and started dreaming of all the things that would happen in your life once you were that person, having that freedom, having that extra cash, spending more time with your family, finally taking a great vacation at an exotic locale.
You searched on the net and found yourself some great thing that you really resonated with and thought, hey everyone will want this because I do. You got started and proceeded to spend more money than you ever made and you started feeling a little bit like maybe this wasn’t the right choice. You may have even tried several different opportunities with the same result. Why do you think that is or was? Is it because everything you picked was a scam and you seem to keep picking the same thing over and over or is it you? What about free enterprise intrigues you but doesn’t allow you to make money doing it. Are you not passionate enough? Are you not desperate enough? What is it? I can tell you right now that if you are unable to put your finger on your trigger, to find out what stops you from pulling it, you will never pull it and you will forever be right where you are.
We have to have a clear understanding of what is stopping us. We have to know without a shadow of a doubt what stands in our way.
Okay so let’s take a look at this. What prevents you from fully immersing yourself and getting results from your home business or small business? Are you not putting in enough hours, do you not have enough knowledge, well, it could be any things but for most of you it is sheer terror, fear.
Fear that when you get to where you want to go, it won’t be what you thought. Fear that you will fail. Fear that you will look like a fool. Fear that you can’t do it. Fear that you will have to get on a plane if you can afford that lux vacation, Fear that you will leave your friends behind, Fear Fear. Terror terror night sweats, bad dreams…does any of this sound a bit familiar to you?
It should because actually no one gets a free ride; everyone faces this in some form or another to some degree or another. You have to find out what that fear is and address it. You have to examine your passion. You may challenge yourself…am I really cut out for this? That is just a manifestation of fear and you need to look beyond it because if you decided one day that you were going to do this, you will. If one day you thought you would dabble in this, you will. If one day you thought I think I will try this…that is all you will ever do and it is your fear speaking loud and clear to you and you are listening.
I know how it feels. I was a person who for a time in my life only did what I was extremely good at. I cooked amazing meals, I skied, I surfed but I only cooked what I could very well, skied slopes and surfed waters I knew. I didn’t do anything that I didn’t already know I could do well. I was afraid I wouldn’t be viewed as perfect. I needed to be perfect and successful and only did the things that reflected that. Yeah, I limited my life, I know that but I was also comfortable and secure. I was viewed as an expert in many things but it was a hollow victory because I knew that was what I was doing. I presented myself in such a way that people thought I was this amazing do everything right person but I wasn’t. I was hiding behind that persona and guess what? Although it presented the illusion of utopia to everyone else.
I was suffering because no one knew the all of me and I had worked so hard at being this other person that I couldn’t admit to the sham could I? It takes a lot to admit something like this but I found it really was taking much more energy to stay in that comfort zone than it was to break out and actually do some things I always wanted to do. I wanted time freedom. I wanted wealth. I wanted a great family life.
Yes, like all of you, I wanted it all and I decided one day to work towards getting it. I found out that I could because that day, although it took many years leading up to that day, that day, that moment, I made a decision; a decision that changed my life forever and released me from my fears.
So today if you are struggling in your business, then take a look at exactly what that is that is stopping you. Are you afraid of what your friends will think? Are you afraid of failure? Are you afraid of success? Are you afraid of the unknown? Whatever that fear is, until and unless you remove it, you will be right where you are tomorrow, next week, next year; for a lifetime.
Here is another little secret I will tell you, yes it is scary, but if you just move forward one little moment at a time, get comfortable and then move again…it gets easier and before you know it you are living to your full potential. So look deep inside today, what is the trigger for you, what will make you go beyond your limits and make a commitment not do live your life within the confinement of comfort but to be brave and live a life you dream of.
Remember that enthusiasm of the first day that you decided to take this journey? Where is it today? Has it waned? Is the bloom off the rose for you? Did it get a little tougher than you thought? Are you having to make adjustments, commitments, promises to yourself that you don’t know you can live up to? I am here today to tell you it will be a hard, it will take some adjusting and it will take all of your determination and resolve but if the prize is worth it, you will buckle down and do it; you will face any and all fear, because the alternative really sucks. It is the life you are comfortable in, yeah, but it is also the life you were looking to change on that first day you made a decision. The first moment when you said enough is enough. Are you taking the action to change that reality or are you cowering in fear. If there is a will, there is a way. If there is a want there is an excuse to say “Maybe I am just not worthy of it”…but you are.
Please don’t give up on your dream. 
Your Coach in Success
Marq Jeffrey
www.wealthworldinc.com – Home of the 7 figure opps that really work and the training YOU NEED for your success.
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